"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Always want Girls around, Can never be alone.

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Hey,

I have no problem picking up girls or meeting them, but my problem stems from not ever wanting to be alone. I always need a girl around and I'm not sure what my problem is. I guess i'm scared of being alone or something. But i want to be comfortable being alone and have a sense of independence.


I have friends, physically active and attractive.

Anyone know what i can do or search to help my situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The best thing to do would be to stop dating for a while. Take a few months off and avoid dating or any kind of intimacy. You need to find out what makes you tic, on your own and find happiness alone. Once you figure that out, you'll be fine with women or without 'em.
 
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Start investing in yourself - get your house/apartment clean, complete those projects you've been putting off. Learn something new - wine, a new language, whatever. Find something that really interests you - besides the latest Xbox game and set some time each day or every other day to do it.

You need to become more than you are and see how valuable YOU are.

Also -

Spin plates - I suffered from always wanting someone around as well and I've found that spinning plates helps.

Once I have more than 1 girl in the mix I know I have other options and don't "need" the 1 girl around all the time.




Just a couple of thoughts.
 
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