"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Always want Girls around, Can never be alone.

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Venom01

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Hey,

I have no problem picking up girls or meeting them, but my problem stems from not ever wanting to be alone. I always need a girl around and I'm not sure what my problem is. I guess i'm scared of being alone or something. But i want to be comfortable being alone and have a sense of independence.


I have friends, physically active and attractive.

Anyone know what i can do or search to help my situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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The best thing to do would be to stop dating for a while. Take a few months off and avoid dating or any kind of intimacy. You need to find out what makes you tic, on your own and find happiness alone. Once you figure that out, you'll be fine with women or without 'em.
 
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Rounder

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Start investing in yourself - get your house/apartment clean, complete those projects you've been putting off. Learn something new - wine, a new language, whatever. Find something that really interests you - besides the latest Xbox game and set some time each day or every other day to do it.

You need to become more than you are and see how valuable YOU are.

Also -

Spin plates - I suffered from always wanting someone around as well and I've found that spinning plates helps.

Once I have more than 1 girl in the mix I know I have other options and don't "need" the 1 girl around all the time.




Just a couple of thoughts.
 
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