"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Always their 18th guy?

Lookatu

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I don't get the 'how tight she is' thing in terms of defining a woman's notch count.

She could have had a few long term relationships and regular sex.
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That wording sounded ambiguous. I wasn't implying that a tight pvssy means anything other than it feels good. Nothing to do with notch count or how many times she's had sex. In other words, if it feels good, who cares? I've known women on both ends of the spectrum with varying levels of tightness.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You know something odd?

This body count talk. After 53 years on the planet I have never asked a woman how many, she has never volunteered and they have never asked me..

Must be a cultural thing
I'm 41 and I've never asked. I've been told a few times, usually by women trying to claim that they have low numbers despite being so "hot" and obviously sexual/desirable. I guess as far as not asking, either I just didn't care or I figured it was relatively low due to the type of women I'm into or I was at the point of understanding that the number is higher than ideal for most women and just knowing that's part of reality. I've never volunteered or told my number except when I was very young and it was low and I was talking too much.
 

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wonder if the reason women never ask it is because they'd rather not reveal theirs, most of the time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wonder if the reason women never ask it is because they'd rather not reveal theirs, most of the time.
Women are natural liars and overtly manipulative.

The idea of women telling their husbands they aren't in the mood when Tyrone and Chad never heard that a her best.

 
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