"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Always ask for a #?

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Frenchconnection

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Do you always end up asking for a # even though some times you can't tell if the girl is into you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If I have not seen any statements of interest of indicators of interest then I need to build more attraction/comfort first. So no, I dont ask, I keep talking.
 
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sometimes if ur charming and interesting, funny enough she'll be like "**** it" and jus give it to u bu u always ask. Never ever give yours
 
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Just ask anyways. Who cares what she is thinking or what her body language is saying. When you call her and ask her on a date. Then, you will know if she is interested.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Just ask anyways. Who cares what she is thinking or what her body language is saying. When you call her and ask her on a date. Then, you will know if she is interested.
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I know what you mean. Sometimes I just can't tell how the chick is feeling even if things seems good.

I assume at least at a certain point in you DJ career (when you get good), the main goal of engaging in a conversation with a chick is to get her # after all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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