"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Always ask for a #?

Frenchconnection

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Do you always end up asking for a # even though some times you can't tell if the girl is into you?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Charm

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If I have not seen any statements of interest of indicators of interest then I need to build more attraction/comfort first. So no, I dont ask, I keep talking.
 

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sometimes if ur charming and interesting, funny enough she'll be like "**** it" and jus give it to u bu u always ask. Never ever give yours
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Just ask anyways. Who cares what she is thinking or what her body language is saying. When you call her and ask her on a date. Then, you will know if she is interested.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Just ask anyways. Who cares what she is thinking or what her body language is saying. When you call her and ask her on a date. Then, you will know if she is interested.

I know what you mean. Sometimes I just can't tell how the chick is feeling even if things seems good.

I assume at least at a certain point in you DJ career (when you get good), the main goal of engaging in a conversation with a chick is to get her # after all.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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