"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Always ask for a #?

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Do you always end up asking for a # even though some times you can't tell if the girl is into you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If I have not seen any statements of interest of indicators of interest then I need to build more attraction/comfort first. So no, I dont ask, I keep talking.
 
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sometimes if ur charming and interesting, funny enough she'll be like "**** it" and jus give it to u bu u always ask. Never ever give yours
 
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Just ask anyways. Who cares what she is thinking or what her body language is saying. When you call her and ask her on a date. Then, you will know if she is interested.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Just ask anyways. Who cares what she is thinking or what her body language is saying. When you call her and ask her on a date. Then, you will know if she is interested.
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I know what you mean. Sometimes I just can't tell how the chick is feeling even if things seems good.

I assume at least at a certain point in you DJ career (when you get good), the main goal of engaging in a conversation with a chick is to get her # after all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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