Always a leader?

[Levrone]

Have a question guys. Not particularly about girls, but about being a leader (and that brings us to a DJ, which is a leader when it comes to realitionships).

Are you (the DJ's ) also leaders in other social intercourse? Like with your friends, that you always have to say where to go when you go out, or what to do. Stuff like that?

I see it by myself, i'm still not a real DJ, but i figured out that I'm always the one who has to organise things when i'm with friends. Is this a good thing? Or should someone only be a leader when he's with a girl?

 

[BigMike]

Originally posted by Levrone
Have a question guys. Not particularly about girls, but about being a leader (and that brings us to a DJ, which is a leader when it comes to realitionships).

Are you (the DJ's ) also leaders in other social intercourse? Like with your friends, that you always have to say where to go when you go out, or what to do. Stuff like that?

I see it by myself, i'm still not a real DJ, but i figured out that I'm always the one who has to organise things when i'm with friends. Is this a good thing? Or should someone only be a leader when he's with a girl?

Being a leader is a phrase that CANT be used in a bad context, IMO.






Unless we're talking gangbangs and the such...

 

[spider_007]

don't think of it as a leader. think of it more as a take charge man. If you see something going down the toobes, because of the incompetence of others, grab it by the horns and take charge...

it should be part of your entire life

Oh and, as long as you know how to shut up and listen. It's a big part of it too.

 

[BigMike]

Originally posted by spider_007
Oh and, as long as you know how to shut up and listen. It's a big part of it too.

Its why Kobe will never be Mike Jordan...:crackup:

 

[Levrone]

Originally posted by spider_007
don't think of it as a leader. think of it more as a take charge man. If you see something going down the toobes, because of the incompetence of others, grab it by the horns and take charge...

it should be part of your entire life

Oh and, as long as you know how to shut up and listen. It's a big part of it too.

Oke, but whats the difference between a "take a charge man" and a leader in your opinion?

 

[aftershock]

It very much depends on who I'm with.

Amongst my main drinking buddies, were all equal, as we all have similar attitudes to life and like to drink and have fun.

With almost everyone else, yes I'm the one whos in charge. I try not to be though, as I like other people to have initiative. That way I get to do more things.

 

[diablo]

AE...

 

[PRMoon]

Originally posted by Levrone
Oke, but whats the difference between a "take a charge man" and a leader in your opinion?

A good leader focuses on the greater good in most situations. A leader listens to his followers and acts with wisdom. And a leader knows when there are sacrifices to be made.