"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alterego?

SoulStarMan

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Here's the thing, I kinda find it difficult improving my game. Something thats kinda been coming to me, thinking about some musicians and singers saying how when they're performing they have an alter ego, is maybe I should I try this?
Give myself an alterego when I go out.
Good idea/bad idea?

I'm gonna try it when I head out this weekend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Obsidian

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That's basically what all of us do, or at least did.

Aristotle said that you become virtuous (eg: courageous) by repetitiously acting in a virtuous matter even when you don't feel like being virtuous. Eventually if you do enough brave things even when you're feeling wussy, you'll become brave.

So eventually the alterego will probably take over if you do it enough.
 

LA_Chico

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The Shocker

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Nobody is ONE single way, we are all essentially shapeshifters. All of us are more comfortable with some personas than others, the best socializers are the ones who are comfortable with various personas.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BlackJackal

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In practice I say it's good. It could help go beyond your usual self. I see it as a step to control your destiny, instead of just making sure you stay exactly the same person for everyone elses entertainment.
 

verysuave

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Found out that too much ****y and funny is bad?.. at least from what happened to me..

delete
 
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