"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright sosuave I need your help

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Theres this girl Jen whos ive known for a long time now. We became best friends over this past year and never really thought anything of it untill she recently got a boyfriend. Then she hit me with it, he might be it. That crushed me. I had no idea how much I really liked her untill now. I know she likes me to, we used to talk for 6 hrs straight about nothing just laughing having fun. Even the other day we talked for 4 hrs, even though she has a boyfriend it was like she didnt have one. What can I do here to get her away from her boyfriend and onto me. I know thats selfish but i dont want any if or ands with this. I want to know if im going to be shot down or not. Should I tell her i like her...?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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she is happy it seems..... Let her go. You missed your chance. Thats why rejection is always better than regret
 
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Its too late you missed it. If it was going to happen it would have happened. Don't beat yourself up over it, if she had wanted you, she would have made it clear.

go find yourself some other girl, and if things don't work out between her and the boyfriend start making some moves.

Don't waste anymore time on this.
 
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I know guys, last thing I want to do is ruine our friendship. Thanks for the advice
 
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Good god. This is like your 4th topic on this same b!tch.

"We used to talk for 6 hours straight on the phone."

And you wonder why she doesn't like you?

Where did your balls go? Get over this dumb broad already. You're being a pathetic little beta boy right now. Man up and take the advice you were given.

-Scars
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Scars said:
Good god. This is like your 4th topic on this same b!tch.

"We used to talk for 6 hours straight on the phone."

And you wonder why she doesn't like you?

Where did your balls go? Get over this dumb broad already. You're being a pathetic little beta boy right now. Man up and take the advice you were given.

-Scars
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Actually its a different one lol..and what r u talking about, we talked for 6 hrs because we were having a good time talking. simple as that...and yea i do like ur advice, i think im gonna take it.
 
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