"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright sosuave I need your help

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Theres this girl Jen whos ive known for a long time now. We became best friends over this past year and never really thought anything of it untill she recently got a boyfriend. Then she hit me with it, he might be it. That crushed me. I had no idea how much I really liked her untill now. I know she likes me to, we used to talk for 6 hrs straight about nothing just laughing having fun. Even the other day we talked for 4 hrs, even though she has a boyfriend it was like she didnt have one. What can I do here to get her away from her boyfriend and onto me. I know thats selfish but i dont want any if or ands with this. I want to know if im going to be shot down or not. Should I tell her i like her...?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she is happy it seems..... Let her go. You missed your chance. Thats why rejection is always better than regret
 
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Its too late you missed it. If it was going to happen it would have happened. Don't beat yourself up over it, if she had wanted you, she would have made it clear.

go find yourself some other girl, and if things don't work out between her and the boyfriend start making some moves.

Don't waste anymore time on this.
 
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I know guys, last thing I want to do is ruine our friendship. Thanks for the advice
 
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Good god. This is like your 4th topic on this same b!tch.

"We used to talk for 6 hours straight on the phone."

And you wonder why she doesn't like you?

Where did your balls go? Get over this dumb broad already. You're being a pathetic little beta boy right now. Man up and take the advice you were given.

-Scars
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Scars said:
Good god. This is like your 4th topic on this same b!tch.

"We used to talk for 6 hours straight on the phone."

And you wonder why she doesn't like you?

Where did your balls go? Get over this dumb broad already. You're being a pathetic little beta boy right now. Man up and take the advice you were given.

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Actually its a different one lol..and what r u talking about, we talked for 6 hrs because we were having a good time talking. simple as that...and yea i do like ur advice, i think im gonna take it.
 
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