"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright sosuave I need your help

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Theres this girl Jen whos ive known for a long time now. We became best friends over this past year and never really thought anything of it untill she recently got a boyfriend. Then she hit me with it, he might be it. That crushed me. I had no idea how much I really liked her untill now. I know she likes me to, we used to talk for 6 hrs straight about nothing just laughing having fun. Even the other day we talked for 4 hrs, even though she has a boyfriend it was like she didnt have one. What can I do here to get her away from her boyfriend and onto me. I know thats selfish but i dont want any if or ands with this. I want to know if im going to be shot down or not. Should I tell her i like her...?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she is happy it seems..... Let her go. You missed your chance. Thats why rejection is always better than regret
 
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Its too late you missed it. If it was going to happen it would have happened. Don't beat yourself up over it, if she had wanted you, she would have made it clear.

go find yourself some other girl, and if things don't work out between her and the boyfriend start making some moves.

Don't waste anymore time on this.
 
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I know guys, last thing I want to do is ruine our friendship. Thanks for the advice
 
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Good god. This is like your 4th topic on this same b!tch.

"We used to talk for 6 hours straight on the phone."

And you wonder why she doesn't like you?

Where did your balls go? Get over this dumb broad already. You're being a pathetic little beta boy right now. Man up and take the advice you were given.

-Scars
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scars said:
Good god. This is like your 4th topic on this same b!tch.

"We used to talk for 6 hours straight on the phone."

And you wonder why she doesn't like you?

Where did your balls go? Get over this dumb broad already. You're being a pathetic little beta boy right now. Man up and take the advice you were given.

-Scars
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Actually its a different one lol..and what r u talking about, we talked for 6 hrs because we were having a good time talking. simple as that...and yea i do like ur advice, i think im gonna take it.
 
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