Alright so what does confidence really mean?

[Caldus]

When it comes to attracting women, what does a girl mean when she says that she looks for confidence in a man? I hear it all the time but I don't really know what they mean by it. Because I am confident in myself but don't ever get women so I must be missing whatever their definition is. What's confidence really mean here in this context?

 

[al77]

Originally posted by Caldus
When it comes to attracting women, what does a girl mean when she says that she looks for confidence in a man? I hear it all the time but I don't really know what they mean by it. Because I am confident in myself but don't ever get women so I must be missing whatever their definition is. What's confidence really mean here in this context?

When you dont _supplicate_, dont hesitate much about decisions - thats a minimum.

 

[squirrels]

Confidence is being resolved in your actions, believing what you're doing is the "right" way to go, trusting the instincts and knowledge you've developed throughout your life instead of looking to others for approval...and knowing that if you do something that gets you into a tight spot, you can handle it.

Basically, self-enablement and resolve.

 

[Caldus]

That is what girls are most attracted to? Then I should be getting some of them too.

 

[Sexual]

That definition gives me confidence just looking at it. Question for ya- how do you keep from losing it once you have it? I've had a girlfriend suck the life outta me.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by ANaTural
That definition gives me confidence just looking at it. Question for ya- how do you keep from losing it once you have it? I've had a girlfriend suck the life outta me.

No, she didn't suck it out of you. You GAVE it all to her and she walked away with it.

 

[Jimbo2k]

Originally posted by squirrels
No, she didn't suck it out of you. You GAVE it all to her and she walked away with it.

Nice.

 

[Sexual]

Nice? Hardly lol

Ouch. I need a couple of good smacks, but naw that ain't the story. I broke it off cause she was disrespectful in her tone and I wouldn't let her get away wid kissin some dewd.

But how do u keep from 'givin it all away' as you say. The only way I've ever been able to do that is stayin single and NEXT'n em if they do something I don't like or I get bored.

 

[whistler]

Confidence is more like a trait. It's internal, stable. It's not something you can give away. So whatever you gave to her, it wasn't confidence.

 

[Mr.De Beer]

Confidence:
4. A feeling of assurance, especially of self-assurance.
5. The state or quality of being certain: I have every confidence in your ability to succeed.
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Its a choice you make. Being confident is being bold, wise and natural.(suave/charming). -Being confident, is being the person you want to be. So yeah, the girl that robbed you of your dignity was controling you. She owned you. So be the man who every guy wants to be: a man with balls.(and a penis) So take control by the balls, and be "the man." (I promise you will then succeed with woman.)

 

[Sexual]

don't bother answering squirrel cause I just got off my ass and did a cold approach to a girl at the tanning salon, damn it was hard but feelin better already about it.

Answers my question of what 2 do once u lose your balls- start from the bottom and work ur arse back up!

word to Beer too