"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alright Playas, need some opinions...

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So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
 
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Leave her alone. Let her call you. If you decide to hit it, just remember how it came to you and don't make her your main girl.
 
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Commando said:
If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
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" If she will do it with you she will do it to you"

You are her Plan B and you have allowed yourself to be used for attention ONLY... Sketch out this situation schematically on a piece of paper.
Do you notice who is the center of the action .

Further advice - NEVER get in a triangle.
 
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Warrior is right. Hit it but don't make her your main girl. She can just be one of the harem.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If, like basically everyone on this site, you just want meaningless sex then keep her on tap but don't make it anything serious.

Otherwise throw her out the window she sounds like a filth bag.
 
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See, I agree with this guy.

I'll never understand why it is so bad for girls to talk to other guys while dating one. Why do you date in the first place? To find the right one.

I just don't see anyting wrong with talking to another guy to see if there's potential, while not wanting to "break up" with your current bf. I mean, if you're engaged, married, or extremely serious, I could see how it would be frowned upon...
 
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collegeEJ said:
So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
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Ask her if she cheats on her boyfriend.

If the answer is "no" tell her to lose your number, and not to flirt with men if she is faithful to him.

If the answer is yes, it's "Game On"
 
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