"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alright Playas, need some opinions...

collegeEJ

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So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Commando

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If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
 

Warrior74

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Leave her alone. Let her call you. If you decide to hit it, just remember how it came to you and don't make her your main girl.
 

jophil28

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Commando said:
If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
" If she will do it with you she will do it to you"

You are her Plan B and you have allowed yourself to be used for attention ONLY... Sketch out this situation schematically on a piece of paper.
Do you notice who is the center of the action .

Further advice - NEVER get in a triangle.
 

HOMBRE

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Warrior is right. Hit it but don't make her your main girl. She can just be one of the harem.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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CrocodileDJ

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If, like basically everyone on this site, you just want meaningless sex then keep her on tap but don't make it anything serious.

Otherwise throw her out the window she sounds like a filth bag.
 

collegeEJ

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See, I agree with this guy.

I'll never understand why it is so bad for girls to talk to other guys while dating one. Why do you date in the first place? To find the right one.

I just don't see anyting wrong with talking to another guy to see if there's potential, while not wanting to "break up" with your current bf. I mean, if you're engaged, married, or extremely serious, I could see how it would be frowned upon...
 

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collegeEJ said:
So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
Ask her if she cheats on her boyfriend.

If the answer is "no" tell her to lose your number, and not to flirt with men if she is faithful to him.

If the answer is yes, it's "Game On"
 
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