"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright Playas, need some opinions...

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So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
 
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Leave her alone. Let her call you. If you decide to hit it, just remember how it came to you and don't make her your main girl.
 
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Commando said:
If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
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" If she will do it with you she will do it to you"

You are her Plan B and you have allowed yourself to be used for attention ONLY... Sketch out this situation schematically on a piece of paper.
Do you notice who is the center of the action .

Further advice - NEVER get in a triangle.
 
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Warrior is right. Hit it but don't make her your main girl. She can just be one of the harem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If, like basically everyone on this site, you just want meaningless sex then keep her on tap but don't make it anything serious.

Otherwise throw her out the window she sounds like a filth bag.
 
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See, I agree with this guy.

I'll never understand why it is so bad for girls to talk to other guys while dating one. Why do you date in the first place? To find the right one.

I just don't see anyting wrong with talking to another guy to see if there's potential, while not wanting to "break up" with your current bf. I mean, if you're engaged, married, or extremely serious, I could see how it would be frowned upon...
 
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collegeEJ said:
So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
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Ask her if she cheats on her boyfriend.

If the answer is "no" tell her to lose your number, and not to flirt with men if she is faithful to him.

If the answer is yes, it's "Game On"
 
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