"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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collegeEJ

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So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
 

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Leave her alone. Let her call you. If you decide to hit it, just remember how it came to you and don't make her your main girl.
 

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Commando said:
If she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend then I would forget about her.
" If she will do it with you she will do it to you"

You are her Plan B and you have allowed yourself to be used for attention ONLY... Sketch out this situation schematically on a piece of paper.
Do you notice who is the center of the action .

Further advice - NEVER get in a triangle.
 

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Warrior is right. Hit it but don't make her your main girl. She can just be one of the harem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CrocodileDJ

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If, like basically everyone on this site, you just want meaningless sex then keep her on tap but don't make it anything serious.

Otherwise throw her out the window she sounds like a filth bag.
 

collegeEJ

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See, I agree with this guy.

I'll never understand why it is so bad for girls to talk to other guys while dating one. Why do you date in the first place? To find the right one.

I just don't see anyting wrong with talking to another guy to see if there's potential, while not wanting to "break up" with your current bf. I mean, if you're engaged, married, or extremely serious, I could see how it would be frowned upon...
 

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collegeEJ said:
So, I met this hot waitress the other day. She seemed really cool so I got her number. Anyways, we begin texting each other and she eventually tells me she thinks I should know that she a has a bf. I respond "well then it's time for an uprgrade" haha.

Anyways, we continue to text the usual bs and she's like "so do we have a deal about calling and texting?" I'm like "What u mean" and she says that she will text me when she's not around her boyfriend and apologizes because she feels bad I didn't know she had one.

Should I see where this leads or just forget about the situation???
Ask her if she cheats on her boyfriend.

If the answer is "no" tell her to lose your number, and not to flirt with men if she is faithful to him.

If the answer is yes, it's "Game On"
 
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