"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alright, Need a Serious 'Pep Talk'.

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I'll keep it short and sweet, I (16 years old) came into this year with the best intentions, hyped up on life, on the High School football team, really eager to succeed. I haven't really have a taste of success this year. I, have kept a record of my days this year at school and outings with friends (which have become more and more freqeunt) my record this year so far is 13 good days, 40 bad days and 8 neutral days. (13-40-8)
I haven't been in school for a month due to personal reasons, I'm starting back Tuesday, please share your thoughts and give me a much needed 'pep talk'. Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm trying to start succeeding in school academically and with the ladies.
 
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What you have to do is make the ladies just a part of your life.

Never make a woman center focus of your life.

focus in school...get your homework done...have your priorities straight.

Women are attracted to men who have a life that doesn't have them in it.....Women are turned off by men who just won't go away sometimes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well if you're out of school for 30 days for personal reasons...i'm gonna assume that 40 fo the bad days are because ur stuck at home?
13 good days, 10 bad, and 8 neutral...ain't bad man.
take their advice.
get more social. try and think fo things to do on weeknights and invite people to join you.[the more u invite people to do things, the more u get invited to do things.]

for me..
monday: probably jsut come home and sleep
tuesday: i ahve a tutor, so i don't end up doign sh!t.
wed: Wingnight. 35 cent wings at a restaurant. so EVERYONE goes there. its tight.
thursday: OC Night with some friends/couples and my girl of the moment.
friday: its a weekend. so w/e the fawk i feel like.

and I consider my weeks to be pretty damn good.
 
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