"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright, Need a Serious 'Pep Talk'.

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I'll keep it short and sweet, I (16 years old) came into this year with the best intentions, hyped up on life, on the High School football team, really eager to succeed. I haven't really have a taste of success this year. I, have kept a record of my days this year at school and outings with friends (which have become more and more freqeunt) my record this year so far is 13 good days, 40 bad days and 8 neutral days. (13-40-8)
I haven't been in school for a month due to personal reasons, I'm starting back Tuesday, please share your thoughts and give me a much needed 'pep talk'. Thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm trying to start succeeding in school academically and with the ladies.
 
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What you have to do is make the ladies just a part of your life.

Never make a woman center focus of your life.

focus in school...get your homework done...have your priorities straight.

Women are attracted to men who have a life that doesn't have them in it.....Women are turned off by men who just won't go away sometimes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well if you're out of school for 30 days for personal reasons...i'm gonna assume that 40 fo the bad days are because ur stuck at home?
13 good days, 10 bad, and 8 neutral...ain't bad man.
take their advice.
get more social. try and think fo things to do on weeknights and invite people to join you.[the more u invite people to do things, the more u get invited to do things.]

for me..
monday: probably jsut come home and sleep
tuesday: i ahve a tutor, so i don't end up doign sh!t.
wed: Wingnight. 35 cent wings at a restaurant. so EVERYONE goes there. its tight.
thursday: OC Night with some friends/couples and my girl of the moment.
friday: its a weekend. so w/e the fawk i feel like.

and I consider my weeks to be pretty damn good.
 
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