"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alright, Need a Serious 'Pep Talk'.

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I'll keep it short and sweet, I (16 years old) came into this year with the best intentions, hyped up on life, on the High School football team, really eager to succeed. I haven't really have a taste of success this year. I, have kept a record of my days this year at school and outings with friends (which have become more and more freqeunt) my record this year so far is 13 good days, 40 bad days and 8 neutral days. (13-40-8)
I haven't been in school for a month due to personal reasons, I'm starting back Tuesday, please share your thoughts and give me a much needed 'pep talk'. Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm trying to start succeeding in school academically and with the ladies.
 
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What you have to do is make the ladies just a part of your life.

Never make a woman center focus of your life.

focus in school...get your homework done...have your priorities straight.

Women are attracted to men who have a life that doesn't have them in it.....Women are turned off by men who just won't go away sometimes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well if you're out of school for 30 days for personal reasons...i'm gonna assume that 40 fo the bad days are because ur stuck at home?
13 good days, 10 bad, and 8 neutral...ain't bad man.
take their advice.
get more social. try and think fo things to do on weeknights and invite people to join you.[the more u invite people to do things, the more u get invited to do things.]

for me..
monday: probably jsut come home and sleep
tuesday: i ahve a tutor, so i don't end up doign sh!t.
wed: Wingnight. 35 cent wings at a restaurant. so EVERYONE goes there. its tight.
thursday: OC Night with some friends/couples and my girl of the moment.
friday: its a weekend. so w/e the fawk i feel like.

and I consider my weeks to be pretty damn good.
 
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