"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So check it out!

I'm going to my first winter ball!

I got the smooth moves down, I got the game goin my way. I'ma have hella fun AND I'm going in an Escalade!

I'm wearing:
Black Slacks
PLain White Dress shirt
sparkly black tie
Adidas SuperStars (http://www.gallbauer.com/adidas-662282.jpg)

Firstly, what would you think of that fit with those shoes? It fits my style...

Second: ANY WORDS OF WISDOM FOR YOUR FAVORITE SEBASTIAN?!??!!

Tell me you love me :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thats pimp....but you need a hat man! May I suggest a top hat?
 
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Jacket?

I dont like the combination of black slacks with the white and black shoes. Get some nice dress shoes?

Remember, dress a notch above how you think everyone else will, if you care.
 
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Christ, I wear that kind of stuff for a night out or a party. Perhaps people around me just mean I have to dress up a notch. Regardless, ties tend to look a bit 80s for parties in my opinion, and sparkly sounds trashy.

White dress shirt- sweet move. A black dinner jacket or suit over the top and boom! either leave the collar undone, or do it up and try a silver necklace of sorts to give some focal point. I really don't like the idea of a tie for a party.

Black slacks also don't look good with white shoes- read JSH's advice. I second a pair of nice black dress shoes.

If you are determined to keep those shoes, wear VERY nice jeans, maybe grey jeans? Switch the dinner jacket for something a bit less formal, and don't touch that damn tie or you'll look like the joker of the party.

Let someone else be the joker- be the King!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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can anyone say LL COOL J..lol..jk..you look good .
 
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Originally posted by Interpol
Superstars are played out, and seem underdressed in relation to the rest of the outfit...
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Yeah, but they're BRAND new. Winter ball is in 3 hours, and I bought them about 2 hours ago!

they look pimpness!
 
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