Create Reality
Master Don Juan
This girl tells me she purposefully manipulates men by being nice and then mean to them (her words). how does don juan react to this?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
alright guys, what would don juan do?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
GloriouslyInsane
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"You mean manipulate BOYS" and then walk away.A dj doesn't care because he is in control and what this chick is telling you is yet another mind trick.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
Well a Don juan would already know that this chick is trying to play games and he would be one step ahead of her manipulating her mind and getting what he wants out of her.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
A woman told me something like this the other night. I nonchalantly told her "Yeah, this isn't news. Most guys know this and the ones that don't get what they deserve. Women do this for amusement when they're bored." She looked at me wide eyed and in shock, then dropped her head and agreed. I just smiled and and whispered in her ear "Don't worry, I won't bore you."Create Reality said:
Don't let women trip you up with things like this especially when you know what they're up to. Set yourself apart from the rest while letting her know where you stand and what you won't accept.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Hmm I like that 'I won't bore you' idea. Don't mind if I use it?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Go ahead, I expect guys to "borrow" a some of the retorts I have with women, that's why I don't post them too often.Create Reality said:Hmm I like that 'I won't bore you' idea. Don't mind if I use it?
Hitman10000
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This shouldn't be a problem to guys that know what they want. When you know what type of woman you want in terms of looks/personality, it's pretty easy.
I don't mind if a woman tries to manipulate me to fit within her agenda, however she should know that her manipulation should correlate with how much she is going to reward me. My personal motto is "What am I gonna get out of it as well?"
By the way, when a girl shows care about you. Genuine care...talking...doing things for you. She is a good partner for you
I don't mind if a woman tries to manipulate me to fit within her agenda, however she should know that her manipulation should correlate with how much she is going to reward me. My personal motto is "What am I gonna get out of it as well?"
By the way, when a girl shows care about you. Genuine care...talking...doing things for you. She is a good partner for you
Most guys get upset when they are disrespected. What I'm learning to do is be direct, to the point, and refuse to put up with B.S. Sometimes it's difficult to not let some anger show... we are human after all. I figure if I showed a little anger, but still refused to put up with B.S., in the long run I come out ahead.
Michael Chief
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admit that you do the same thing, but to women...then its game on ;-)