Create Reality
Master Don Juan
This girl tells me she purposefully manipulates men by being nice and then mean to them (her words). how does don juan react to this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
alright guys, what would don juan do?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
GloriouslyInsane
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"You mean manipulate BOYS" and then walk away.A dj doesn't care because he is in control and what this chick is telling you is yet another mind trick.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
Well a Don juan would already know that this chick is trying to play games and he would be one step ahead of her manipulating her mind and getting what he wants out of her.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
A woman told me something like this the other night. I nonchalantly told her "Yeah, this isn't news. Most guys know this and the ones that don't get what they deserve. Women do this for amusement when they're bored." She looked at me wide eyed and in shock, then dropped her head and agreed. I just smiled and and whispered in her ear "Don't worry, I won't bore you."Create Reality said:
Don't let women trip you up with things like this especially when you know what they're up to. Set yourself apart from the rest while letting her know where you stand and what you won't accept.
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Hmm I like that 'I won't bore you' idea. Don't mind if I use it?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Go ahead, I expect guys to "borrow" a some of the retorts I have with women, that's why I don't post them too often.Create Reality said:Hmm I like that 'I won't bore you' idea. Don't mind if I use it?
Hitman10000
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This shouldn't be a problem to guys that know what they want. When you know what type of woman you want in terms of looks/personality, it's pretty easy.
I don't mind if a woman tries to manipulate me to fit within her agenda, however she should know that her manipulation should correlate with how much she is going to reward me. My personal motto is "What am I gonna get out of it as well?"
By the way, when a girl shows care about you. Genuine care...talking...doing things for you. She is a good partner for you
I don't mind if a woman tries to manipulate me to fit within her agenda, however she should know that her manipulation should correlate with how much she is going to reward me. My personal motto is "What am I gonna get out of it as well?"
By the way, when a girl shows care about you. Genuine care...talking...doing things for you. She is a good partner for you
Most guys get upset when they are disrespected. What I'm learning to do is be direct, to the point, and refuse to put up with B.S. Sometimes it's difficult to not let some anger show... we are human after all. I figure if I showed a little anger, but still refused to put up with B.S., in the long run I come out ahead.
Michael Chief
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admit that you do the same thing, but to women...then its game on ;-)