"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alright boys ive waited a long time for this

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Bassmasterzac

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So i moved to florida and my friends aunt (23) lives there and i used to chat her years ago. Anywho, she wrote a status about some mud jams and i asked her where they were at. She told me bla bla
Bla here and i aaid cool thats not tol far she replied im in ga right now bla bla bla but let me know if you go!!!

The question is what should i do say alright and message her if i go, or get her number or what. Ive waited years for this oppurtunity so help me out guys!

I just replied got ya and liked her post.. Its a month from now and id like to get her number what should i do
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm not sure what language you are speaking, It's hard to understand, but I think I get it. Send her a message on facebook and tell her you want to take to whatever event you choose and ask her for her number. It's very important that you do this by using the English language and use proper grammar, otherwise she might think you are dumb and blow you off.
 
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I'm with Willard, you need to get her out before the "mud jams". If I remember correctly you're new in town so use that as a nice solid reason for hitting her up. Tell her you're looking for something fun to do and after she suggests some place ask her to come along as your tour guide. Then from there make it happen. Also stop liking her FB posts.
 
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Im typing mildy inebriated, sorry. Okay,
I only liked her last reply, I don't even do facebook. So I should message her, when should I do that? Good solid advice guys
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Agree with apprenticedj and do stop with the facebook. "Hey what's going on this weekend?" is one possibility.
 
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