"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alright boys ive waited a long time for this

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Bassmasterzac

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So i moved to florida and my friends aunt (23) lives there and i used to chat her years ago. Anywho, she wrote a status about some mud jams and i asked her where they were at. She told me bla bla
Bla here and i aaid cool thats not tol far she replied im in ga right now bla bla bla but let me know if you go!!!

The question is what should i do say alright and message her if i go, or get her number or what. Ive waited years for this oppurtunity so help me out guys!

I just replied got ya and liked her post.. Its a month from now and id like to get her number what should i do
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm not sure what language you are speaking, It's hard to understand, but I think I get it. Send her a message on facebook and tell her you want to take to whatever event you choose and ask her for her number. It's very important that you do this by using the English language and use proper grammar, otherwise she might think you are dumb and blow you off.
 
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I'm with Willard, you need to get her out before the "mud jams". If I remember correctly you're new in town so use that as a nice solid reason for hitting her up. Tell her you're looking for something fun to do and after she suggests some place ask her to come along as your tour guide. Then from there make it happen. Also stop liking her FB posts.
 
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Im typing mildy inebriated, sorry. Okay,
I only liked her last reply, I don't even do facebook. So I should message her, when should I do that? Good solid advice guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agree with apprenticedj and do stop with the facebook. "Hey what's going on this weekend?" is one possibility.
 
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