"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright boys ive waited a long time for this

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Bassmasterzac

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So i moved to florida and my friends aunt (23) lives there and i used to chat her years ago. Anywho, she wrote a status about some mud jams and i asked her where they were at. She told me bla bla
Bla here and i aaid cool thats not tol far she replied im in ga right now bla bla bla but let me know if you go!!!

The question is what should i do say alright and message her if i go, or get her number or what. Ive waited years for this oppurtunity so help me out guys!

I just replied got ya and liked her post.. Its a month from now and id like to get her number what should i do
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Willard

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I'm not sure what language you are speaking, It's hard to understand, but I think I get it. Send her a message on facebook and tell her you want to take to whatever event you choose and ask her for her number. It's very important that you do this by using the English language and use proper grammar, otherwise she might think you are dumb and blow you off.
 
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I'm with Willard, you need to get her out before the "mud jams". If I remember correctly you're new in town so use that as a nice solid reason for hitting her up. Tell her you're looking for something fun to do and after she suggests some place ask her to come along as your tour guide. Then from there make it happen. Also stop liking her FB posts.
 
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Im typing mildy inebriated, sorry. Okay,
I only liked her last reply, I don't even do facebook. So I should message her, when should I do that? Good solid advice guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Agree with apprenticedj and do stop with the facebook. "Hey what's going on this weekend?" is one possibility.
 
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