"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alpha > Beta? I believe it ain't necessarily so.

TheMonkeyKing

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Alphas are not the Brad Pitts of the world, they are the people you probably never heard of, people that have real influence in the world.

I actually rate Brad Pitt highly as an actor, the gorgeous b@stard and would argue that he is pretty alpha. I do also agree with the above sentiment though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

The_411

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Doesn't really in matter in the grand scheme of things alpha v. beta is merely for deliniation of perceived groupings.

The key is to get away from the behaviors that lead you to fail. If you can impose your will on your life and not let things happen you're heading the right direction.

Once you can address your internal issues address your goals then you're ready to succeed with woman. Until you face your issues with women you will not be successful.

The Alpha v. Beta labels come after you've take or fail to take action.
 
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