"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alpha > Beta? I believe it ain't necessarily so.

TheMonkeyKing

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Alphas are not the Brad Pitts of the world, they are the people you probably never heard of, people that have real influence in the world.

I actually rate Brad Pitt highly as an actor, the gorgeous b@stard and would argue that he is pretty alpha. I do also agree with the above sentiment though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The_411

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Doesn't really in matter in the grand scheme of things alpha v. beta is merely for deliniation of perceived groupings.

The key is to get away from the behaviors that lead you to fail. If you can impose your will on your life and not let things happen you're heading the right direction.

Once you can address your internal issues address your goals then you're ready to succeed with woman. Until you face your issues with women you will not be successful.

The Alpha v. Beta labels come after you've take or fail to take action.
 
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