"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alpha > Beta? I believe it ain't necessarily so.

TheMonkeyKing

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Alphas are not the Brad Pitts of the world, they are the people you probably never heard of, people that have real influence in the world.

I actually rate Brad Pitt highly as an actor, the gorgeous b@stard and would argue that he is pretty alpha. I do also agree with the above sentiment though.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The_411

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Doesn't really in matter in the grand scheme of things alpha v. beta is merely for deliniation of perceived groupings.

The key is to get away from the behaviors that lead you to fail. If you can impose your will on your life and not let things happen you're heading the right direction.

Once you can address your internal issues address your goals then you're ready to succeed with woman. Until you face your issues with women you will not be successful.

The Alpha v. Beta labels come after you've take or fail to take action.
 
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