"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alpha > Beta? I believe it ain't necessarily so.

TheMonkeyKing

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Alphas are not the Brad Pitts of the world, they are the people you probably never heard of, people that have real influence in the world.

I actually rate Brad Pitt highly as an actor, the gorgeous b@stard and would argue that he is pretty alpha. I do also agree with the above sentiment though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The_411

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Doesn't really in matter in the grand scheme of things alpha v. beta is merely for deliniation of perceived groupings.

The key is to get away from the behaviors that lead you to fail. If you can impose your will on your life and not let things happen you're heading the right direction.

Once you can address your internal issues address your goals then you're ready to succeed with woman. Until you face your issues with women you will not be successful.

The Alpha v. Beta labels come after you've take or fail to take action.
 
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