so this girl ju messaged me on myspace becuz im cute. she gave me her number and everything. u know wat, i actined aloof and ****y and funny and she totally got turn around by it. she accused me of bein a player. i kinda makes u think if this aloof stuff really works.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
aloof? ****y funny?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I tried something similar, too. This one chick asked me on facebook: "Do you have a girlfriend and when r u coming back to visit me?"
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
. blah blah blah. You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much "
was that ****y and funny?
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
. blah blah blah. You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much "was that ****y and funny?
yea, i'd say that was ****y funny. it depends on how she took it though. what'd she say?ChrizZ said:I tried something similar, too. This one chick asked me on facebook: "Do you have a girlfriend and when r u coming back to visit me?"
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
was that ****y and funny?
ChrizZ said:
hmm well then, she might not have taken it well. is she didnt take that well then she obviously have low self esteem. maybe u should next her, or wait to see if she responds, she could have jus not be online ina while.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
its cool to be a lil ****y funny but make sure what you say isnt too harsh like the part here
and Raikojo17 what did you say back to her or w/e
might could be over doing itChrizZ said:You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much
and Raikojo17 what did you say back to her or w/e
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Some of you are confused here, thought I should bring this up.
Aloof:
-at a distance, esp. in feeling or interest; apart: They always stood aloof from their classmates.
–adjective 2. reserved or reticent; indifferent; disinterested: Because of his shyness, he had the reputation of being aloof.
****y:
-arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a ****y air.
Funny:
-providing fun; causing amusement or laughter; amusing; comical: a funny remark; a funny person.
-attempting to amuse; facetious: Did you really mean that or were you just being funny?
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Being aloof is entirely different from being ****y & funny.
Aloof:
-at a distance, esp. in feeling or interest; apart: They always stood aloof from their classmates.
–adjective 2. reserved or reticent; indifferent; disinterested: Because of his shyness, he had the reputation of being aloof.
****y:
-arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a ****y air.
Funny:
-providing fun; causing amusement or laughter; amusing; comical: a funny remark; a funny person.
-attempting to amuse; facetious: Did you really mean that or were you just being funny?
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Being aloof is entirely different from being ****y & funny.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I think you were meaning...apathetic...perhaps even indifferent.
djweses89 said:
ok
her: hey boo boo wats good
me: hey! ummm oh r u?
her: im ****** hers my number ***-***-****. call me sumtime
Me: haha, ok ill call u sumtime when im free
her: wat's so funny? im serious ur cute and i like u.
Me:thanx. yea, lol so am i
her:nevermind u probably a player anyway
so did i do sumtimg wrong?
lol thanx dude. but i meant i was jus actin not interested. being aloof, not crackin jokes at her. i told her i'd call her in a joking way like "yeah right, ill call u *snicker* sure thing", in that way. she thought i was an idiot. i didnt like her, but i was willing to give her a chance, she was turned off by my behavior. maybe she has low selfesteeme.snorida44x said: