so this girl ju messaged me on myspace becuz im cute. she gave me her number and everything. u know wat, i actined aloof and ****y and funny and she totally got turn around by it. she accused me of bein a player. i kinda makes u think if this aloof stuff really works.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
aloof? ****y funny?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I tried something similar, too. This one chick asked me on facebook: "Do you have a girlfriend and when r u coming back to visit me?"
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
. blah blah blah. You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much "
was that ****y and funny?
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
. blah blah blah. You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much "was that ****y and funny?
yea, i'd say that was ****y funny. it depends on how she took it though. what'd she say?ChrizZ said:I tried something similar, too. This one chick asked me on facebook: "Do you have a girlfriend and when r u coming back to visit me?"
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
was that ****y and funny?
ChrizZ said:
hmm well then, she might not have taken it well. is she didnt take that well then she obviously have low self esteem. maybe u should next her, or wait to see if she responds, she could have jus not be online ina while.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
its cool to be a lil ****y funny but make sure what you say isnt too harsh like the part here
and Raikojo17 what did you say back to her or w/e
might could be over doing itChrizZ said:You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much
and Raikojo17 what did you say back to her or w/e
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Some of you are confused here, thought I should bring this up.
Aloof:
-at a distance, esp. in feeling or interest; apart: They always stood aloof from their classmates.
–adjective 2. reserved or reticent; indifferent; disinterested: Because of his shyness, he had the reputation of being aloof.
****y:
-arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a ****y air.
Funny:
-providing fun; causing amusement or laughter; amusing; comical: a funny remark; a funny person.
-attempting to amuse; facetious: Did you really mean that or were you just being funny?
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Being aloof is entirely different from being ****y & funny.
Aloof:
-at a distance, esp. in feeling or interest; apart: They always stood aloof from their classmates.
–adjective 2. reserved or reticent; indifferent; disinterested: Because of his shyness, he had the reputation of being aloof.
****y:
-arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a ****y air.
Funny:
-providing fun; causing amusement or laughter; amusing; comical: a funny remark; a funny person.
-attempting to amuse; facetious: Did you really mean that or were you just being funny?
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Being aloof is entirely different from being ****y & funny.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I think you were meaning...apathetic...perhaps even indifferent.
djweses89 said:
ok
her: hey boo boo wats good
me: hey! ummm oh r u?
her: im ****** hers my number ***-***-****. call me sumtime
Me: haha, ok ill call u sumtime when im free
her: wat's so funny? im serious ur cute and i like u.
Me:thanx. yea, lol so am i
her:nevermind u probably a player anyway
so did i do sumtimg wrong?
lol thanx dude. but i meant i was jus actin not interested. being aloof, not crackin jokes at her. i told her i'd call her in a joking way like "yeah right, ill call u *snicker* sure thing", in that way. she thought i was an idiot. i didnt like her, but i was willing to give her a chance, she was turned off by my behavior. maybe she has low selfesteeme.snorida44x said: