so this girl ju messaged me on myspace becuz im cute. she gave me her number and everything. u know wat, i actined aloof and ****y and funny and she totally got turn around by it. she accused me of bein a player. i kinda makes u think if this aloof stuff really works.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
aloof? ****y funny?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I tried something similar, too. This one chick asked me on facebook: "Do you have a girlfriend and when r u coming back to visit me?"
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
. blah blah blah. You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much "
was that ****y and funny?
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
. blah blah blah. You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much "was that ****y and funny?
yea, i'd say that was ****y funny. it depends on how she took it though. what'd she say?ChrizZ said:I tried something similar, too. This one chick asked me on facebook: "Do you have a girlfriend and when r u coming back to visit me?"
My reply:
"Well, I have a girlfriend, a mistress, a wife and a booty call girl
was that ****y and funny?
ChrizZ said:
hmm well then, she might not have taken it well. is she didnt take that well then she obviously have low self esteem. maybe u should next her, or wait to see if she responds, she could have jus not be online ina while.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
its cool to be a lil ****y funny but make sure what you say isnt too harsh like the part here
and Raikojo17 what did you say back to her or w/e
might could be over doing itChrizZ said:You´re probably crying your eyes out every night because you miss me so much
and Raikojo17 what did you say back to her or w/e
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Some of you are confused here, thought I should bring this up.
Aloof:
-at a distance, esp. in feeling or interest; apart: They always stood aloof from their classmates.
–adjective 2. reserved or reticent; indifferent; disinterested: Because of his shyness, he had the reputation of being aloof.
****y:
-arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a ****y air.
Funny:
-providing fun; causing amusement or laughter; amusing; comical: a funny remark; a funny person.
-attempting to amuse; facetious: Did you really mean that or were you just being funny?
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Being aloof is entirely different from being ****y & funny.
Aloof:
-at a distance, esp. in feeling or interest; apart: They always stood aloof from their classmates.
–adjective 2. reserved or reticent; indifferent; disinterested: Because of his shyness, he had the reputation of being aloof.
****y:
-arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited: He walked in with a ****y air.
Funny:
-providing fun; causing amusement or laughter; amusing; comical: a funny remark; a funny person.
-attempting to amuse; facetious: Did you really mean that or were you just being funny?
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Being aloof is entirely different from being ****y & funny.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
I think you were meaning...apathetic...perhaps even indifferent.
djweses89 said:
ok
her: hey boo boo wats good
me: hey! ummm oh r u?
her: im ****** hers my number ***-***-****. call me sumtime
Me: haha, ok ill call u sumtime when im free
her: wat's so funny? im serious ur cute and i like u.
Me:thanx. yea, lol so am i
her:nevermind u probably a player anyway
so did i do sumtimg wrong?
lol thanx dude. but i meant i was jus actin not interested. being aloof, not crackin jokes at her. i told her i'd call her in a joking way like "yeah right, ill call u *snicker* sure thing", in that way. she thought i was an idiot. i didnt like her, but i was willing to give her a chance, she was turned off by my behavior. maybe she has low selfesteeme.snorida44x said: