"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Almost there. Any ideas?

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thaik2007

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Alright, my confidence is up and I feel good about myself most of the time, but I am so desperate. The desperation is not going to go away until I atleast get a taste of what I want.

There are these two good looking girls who are into me, and I'm into them, but I'm balking at actually asking them out. They are almost always walking with their friends.

I have no problem saying "Hi" when they are alone, but I get nervous when they around their friends. I know they talk about me (in a positive way, I've heard it).

The one I like the most is infatuated with me and I've only taken her order at work. I looked at her in lunch line once and her hand started shaking, she dropped her bread. I don't see her now that I quit.

But I'm scared of success, I think.

Any ideas on how I can make asking one or both of these chicks out? Should I stalk them so I know when they are alone to ask? :) What can I do. I've reached a plateau. I'm so close, but scared, and my frustration is skyrocketing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ_Dork

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you say you are confident - then when I read further you're not.
 
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Walk this Way

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Girls love strength in numbers. But you have to make friends with each of her friends, and then go in for the kill. It's MUCH easier.
 
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