"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CoolProgram99

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Hi there guys. I have been reading the post and all the advice on the site, and it always is suggesting to not be too nice and stop using that overly "wussy" attitued with attractive women, as it is poorly original and they have heard that stuff dozens of times.

However, I have just been hanging with this really nice, cute and simpatic girl, and I have started to like her. She has neved had any kind of relationship, and only has been attracted to a boy a one time in her life.

My question is that, do you think it will be wrong to come in with some compliments? Since she hasn't listened to all this stuff, she has reacted positively to some of my tests, and I really want to stop being a jerk with her just to attract her.

Obviously, I am not leaving my c&f attitude and secure personality, but since she hasn't been approached in her life save one time, how do suggest I should act?

Thanks again ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bookman

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it's not that you shouldn't compliment, just don't make it like she's the Goddess and you're the unworthy servant at her feet :p

and don't take every possible chance to complement her... you just have to know what lines not to cross
 

War Against Betaism

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bookman said:
it's not that you shouldn't compliment, just don't make it like she's the Goddess and you're the unworthy servant at her feet :p
Exactly, I compliment girls all the time, just don't compliment and then expect something back, like her approval and a cute comment. Say it like you mean it.
 
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