"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CoolProgram99

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Hi there guys. I have been reading the post and all the advice on the site, and it always is suggesting to not be too nice and stop using that overly "wussy" attitued with attractive women, as it is poorly original and they have heard that stuff dozens of times.

However, I have just been hanging with this really nice, cute and simpatic girl, and I have started to like her. She has neved had any kind of relationship, and only has been attracted to a boy a one time in her life.

My question is that, do you think it will be wrong to come in with some compliments? Since she hasn't listened to all this stuff, she has reacted positively to some of my tests, and I really want to stop being a jerk with her just to attract her.

Obviously, I am not leaving my c&f attitude and secure personality, but since she hasn't been approached in her life save one time, how do suggest I should act?

Thanks again ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bookman

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it's not that you shouldn't compliment, just don't make it like she's the Goddess and you're the unworthy servant at her feet :p

and don't take every possible chance to complement her... you just have to know what lines not to cross
 

War Against Betaism

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bookman said:
it's not that you shouldn't compliment, just don't make it like she's the Goddess and you're the unworthy servant at her feet :p
Exactly, I compliment girls all the time, just don't compliment and then expect something back, like her approval and a cute comment. Say it like you mean it.
 
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