"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CoolProgram99

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Hi there guys. I have been reading the post and all the advice on the site, and it always is suggesting to not be too nice and stop using that overly "wussy" attitued with attractive women, as it is poorly original and they have heard that stuff dozens of times.

However, I have just been hanging with this really nice, cute and simpatic girl, and I have started to like her. She has neved had any kind of relationship, and only has been attracted to a boy a one time in her life.

My question is that, do you think it will be wrong to come in with some compliments? Since she hasn't listened to all this stuff, she has reacted positively to some of my tests, and I really want to stop being a jerk with her just to attract her.

Obviously, I am not leaving my c&f attitude and secure personality, but since she hasn't been approached in her life save one time, how do suggest I should act?

Thanks again ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bookman

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it's not that you shouldn't compliment, just don't make it like she's the Goddess and you're the unworthy servant at her feet :p

and don't take every possible chance to complement her... you just have to know what lines not to cross
 

War Against Betaism

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bookman said:
it's not that you shouldn't compliment, just don't make it like she's the Goddess and you're the unworthy servant at her feet :p
Exactly, I compliment girls all the time, just don't compliment and then expect something back, like her approval and a cute comment. Say it like you mean it.
 
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