"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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almost in a fight... behaved well?

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today i was at a soccer competition and in the last match, things became quite rough. i mean, everyone was protestating against the referee and was insultin' the opposite team. a player of the other team bumped into me and made a foul, by grabbin' me and makin' me go to the floor. i was given the ball back by the referee and i didn't say anything to that guy. suddenly he comes to me and starts telling me i'm not playin' fair. i tell him to shut up, since he's hurtin' everyone in my team. he comes closer to me and i come closer to him, confronting each other. he tells me that he's going to kick my @ss whenever i want. i reply "yeah, whatever u say". we keep arguin' for a little, then we both go away from the field. then, a friend of mine who knows that guy to be a trouble-maker, tells me to go away with him, not to be @ss-kicked by him. i tell him that everything's alright and if he wants problems i'm there for him. then that guy calls me into a room and i go there and i tell him that if he wants to fight, i'm ready, although i know he's going to kick my @ss (i'm 130lbs, 5'9, while he's 6'4, 190lbs, maybe more, even though he's 2 years older than me).

then we clarify and everyone goes by his own way, but he's still angry.

i hardly doubt i'm going to have problems with that guy again, but i wanted to know if i behaved the right way... i don't know, it just seems to me that i've been quite a coward since i didn't punch him... tell me what u think
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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He wanted to start **** then he should've thrown a punch.

He's a ***** who needs someone to hit him to get him going.


That said, you should have knocked him on his ass.
 

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baha.. you're from italy right?

the land where soccer players take a dive when you look at them....hahahahha
 

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for 7 virtues: tell me how the hell could i kick his ass, if he's 50lbs and 20cm more than me... it's impossible

for centaurion: i didn't know we had this reputation as soccer players:) where ya from anyway?
 

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Size has little to do with it unless you start grappling.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what does grappling mean? (sorry, but i'm not english talker). anyway size has a lot to do, when u never played martial arts or boxe... i don't see anyway i could bring to the floor someone who weights 50lbs (25 kgs) more than me... think about it, i could do whatever i want, but how could i make him go to the floor? plus, the top of my head barely reaches the base of his neck, so it's hard to punch him too... no way man
 

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Grappling: grabbing or wrestling with your opponent. The opposite of striking (kicking and punching).

I have seen some damn small guys take on huge mammoths of men and win. With no martial art experience.

Of course if you're afraid of losing then you'll never win.
 

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i don't give a sh1t about winning or losing, i'm just realistic... i realize that he can bring me to the floor with just one hand... not that it bothers me, but it's so
 
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