"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Almost banged a 9/10

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RazorRambo24

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idk what to make of this. you gave yourself blue balls, couldn't capitalize on a hot chick who had her mouth on your d.ck already, and then started to analyze her life and whether she would be a good plate..

idk whats up with sosuavers.. you guys are a different breed..

and honestly let me just say this to everyone.. if you're afraid to f a girl without a condom, you're not made for this sh.t (not you OP, i know you planned on f-ing her anywy.. i think she jus wasnt fully turned on tbh)
 

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OP, don't be too hard on yourself, but also make this a lesson learned: As a man, you LEAD THE SEXUAL INTERACTION by prepping everything from logistics to condoms.
What gave you the impression I was hard on myself? Idgaf either way, I just thought this whole thing was entetaining as hell. I truly don't care, I haven't even fapped since that night and hadn't fapped for almost 2 weeks prior either out of sheer apathy, my sex drive is extremely low.

Did you say she said she has bpd?

If so.... you lucked out.

I have hooked up with several 9’s in my life and for whatever reason they all had some issue like bpd.
Not sure I follow, I lucked out that she is the exact same as every other hot girl?


idk what to make of this. you gave yourself blue balls, couldn't capitalize on a hot chick who had her mouth on your d.ck already, and then started to analyze her life and whether she would be a good plate..

idk whats up with sosuavers.. you guys are a different breed..

and honestly let me just say this to everyone.. if you're afraid to f a girl without a condom, you're not made for this sh.t (not you OP, i know you planned on f-ing her anywy.. i think she jus wasnt fully turned on tbh)
I wasn't afraid, I could just tell she wasn't quite feeling it. I'm rusty, haven't had sex or a date since Sep due to a voluntary break from women.

Besides, getting this close to sex and showing indifference about it speaks volumes, the ability of guys to restrain themselves and not be thirsty is powerful especially if they know you can dominate them. At one point I literally had her naked on my bed, spread her legs, rubbed my **** on her ***** then backed off literally because my gut told me it was a bad idea.

And yes on your 2nd point, I avoid cluster B types like the plague but this girl was hot enough for me to ignore it. Again, I didn't really make this topic for advice as much as I made it to share because I thought it was interesting. I only threw in the question at the end for the sake of discussion.
 
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