"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nothing to hide isn't power at all. Nothing to hide takes away all of your mystique which in the dating game, especially in the early phases of dating (first 3-4 dates), is very important. While this may have paid off short term as off the cuff and laissez faire (and notice there is nothing in there about whether it DID pay off or not other than some nebulous "being bold turned her on" -- personally, I think it comes off a little bizarre), I think longer term it will backfire. She now expects access to knowing everything with no limitations. Boundaries are important.
 
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There is literally no reason to do something like that. Not to mention that it's extremely rude towards a person, man or woman, to look at your phone during a conversation, unless you have to stick to a schedule or an emergency occurs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Barrister said:
Nothing to hide isn't power at all. Nothing to hide takes away all of your mystique which in the dating game, especially in the early phases of dating (first 3-4 dates), is very important. While this may have paid off short term as off the cuff and laissez faire (and notice there is nothing in there about whether it DID pay off or not other than some nebulous "being bold turned her on" -- personally, I think it comes off a little bizarre), I think longer term it will backfire. She now expects access to knowing everything with no limitations. Boundaries are important.
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True, she'll see it as her right to see your texts or check your phone
 
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HyenaPrince said:
There is literally no reason to do something like that. Not to mention that it's extremely rude towards a person, man or woman, to look at your phone during a conversation, unless you have to stick to a schedule or an emergency occurs.
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Yeah, checking your phone is rude.
What do you do to when someone you're having a conversation with does this? Walk off or call her out or shift your attention?
 
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Yeah, checking your phone is rude.
What do you do to when someone you're having a conversation with does this? Walk off or call her out or shift your attention?
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Walking off immediately is too extreme. Just address it in a calm way. If they keep doing it, you should leave. You have to be strict with this.
 
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Dam44 said:
True, she'll see it as her right to see your texts or check your phone
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Right - but the bigger issue in the short term is you now have lost a lot of your mystery. Also - letting her potentially axe another potential date/plate you have by handing her your phone is just downright silly. Just dumb on multiple levels.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2 ways here anyway

one he lost all mystery and pretty much gave his balls to her to apease her

or

he shows he have options, she fell if she don't behave her best she will be replaced


context is more important as well consistence, if you can pull this off without looking like needing for validation and aproval I can see this work, but its a wild card, too much things can happen, so I wouldn't and will not recomend you do so
 
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This is the cringey, weird, psycho realm of behaviour that has guys asking why they are 9/10 athletic and get no action.

Some people have a personality that leads them to be cringey weirdos out of touch with reality and no self-awareness.

I'm sure this guy thinks he's the man.

Anyone condoning this behaviour is suspect
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you have more females competing for you, just do as I do: leave your phone on the table.
She'll see the Whatsapp message accompanied by a hot picture of their rival, and you just turn it off.
It shows that you need no validation from females and that you have options. And she is more likely to believe that you'll treat her respectfully when she's on the other side of the equation.

But turning off your phone is the best option if you're dealing with a shy/insecure woman.
It's all relative. Just don't give random b1tches your phone, that's not useful in any way.
 
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andreihaha said:
If you have more females competing for you, just do as I do: leave your phone on the table.
She'll see the Whatsapp message accompanied by a hot picture of their rival, and you just turn it off.
It shows that you need no validation from females and that you have options. And she is more likely to believe that you'll treat her respectfully when she's on the other side of the equation.

But turning off your phone is the best option if you're dealing with a shy/insecure woman.
It's all relative. Just don't give random b1tches your phone, that's not useful in any way.
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I mean to me this all seems too petty. Why prove you have options if you really do?

Oh look another girl is texting me!

Bro you should be focused on your date and seeing if she is trash or not, can you bang her tonight? Good rapport?

Instead guys are hoping another girls texts them and the date sees on some senpai notice me tip

Shameful.
 
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Murkserious said:
I mean to me this all seems too petty. Why prove you have options if you really do?

Oh look another girl is texting me!

Bro you should be focused on your date and seeing if she is trash or not, can you bang her tonight? Good rapport?

Instead guys are hoping another girls texts them and the date sees on some senpai notice me tip

Shameful.
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I'm not saying I'm not focused on my date.
If I get a text from another, fine, if not, fine again. I don't care.
Of course you should be enjoying your date, but that can be used on SOME chicks.
 
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andreihaha said:
I'm not saying I'm not focused on my date.
If I get a text from another, fine, if not, fine again. I don't care.
Of course you should be enjoying your date, but that can be used on SOME chicks.
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SOME= Chicks that love playing games to cut their BS?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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