Allow a girl reply your text?

[Dam44]

Saw this on twitter


Thoughts?

 

[dude99]

Gee maybe if he is a good boy she will let him keep his ballz in her purse too!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Retarded

 

[Barrister]

Nothing to hide isn't power at all. Nothing to hide takes away all of your mystique which in the dating game, especially in the early phases of dating (first 3-4 dates), is very important. While this may have paid off short term as off the cuff and laissez faire (and notice there is nothing in there about whether it DID pay off or not other than some nebulous "being bold turned her on" -- personally, I think it comes off a little bizarre), I think longer term it will backfire. She now expects access to knowing everything with no limitations. Boundaries are important.

 

[HyenaPrince]

There is literally no reason to do something like that. Not to mention that it's extremely rude towards a person, man or woman, to look at your phone during a conversation, unless you have to stick to a schedule or an emergency occurs.

 

[Dam44]

Nothing to hide isn't power at all. Nothing to hide takes away all of your mystique which in the dating game, especially in the early phases of dating (first 3-4 dates), is very important. While this may have paid off short term as off the cuff and laissez faire (and notice there is nothing in there about whether it DID pay off or not other than some nebulous "being bold turned her on" -- personally, I think it comes off a little bizarre), I think longer term it will backfire. She now expects access to knowing everything with no limitations. Boundaries are important.

True, she'll see it as her right to see your texts or check your phone

 

[Dam44]

There is literally no reason to do something like that. Not to mention that it's extremely rude towards a person, man or woman, to look at your phone during a conversation, unless you have to stick to a schedule or an emergency occurs.

Yeah, checking your phone is rude.
What do you do to when someone you're having a conversation with does this? Walk off or call her out or shift your attention?

 

[HyenaPrince]

Yeah, checking your phone is rude.
What do you do to when someone you're having a conversation with does this? Walk off or call her out or shift your attention?

Walking off immediately is too extreme. Just address it in a calm way. If they keep doing it, you should leave. You have to be strict with this.

 

[Dam44]

Walking off immediately is too extreme. Just address it in a calm way. If they keep doing it, you should leave. You have to be strict with this.

Noted, Thanks

 

[Barrister]

True, she'll see it as her right to see your texts or check your phone

Right - but the bigger issue in the short term is you now have lost a lot of your mystery. Also - letting her potentially axe another potential date/plate you have by handing her your phone is just downright silly. Just dumb on multiple levels.

 

[Alvafe]

2 ways here anyway

one he lost all mystery and pretty much gave his balls to her to apease her

or

he shows he have options, she fell if she don't behave her best she will be replaced


context is more important as well consistence, if you can pull this off without looking like needing for validation and aproval I can see this work, but its a wild card, too much things can happen, so I wouldn't and will not recomend you do so

 

[Dam44]

I kinda like it. It could be fun for a laugh.

Her response especially

 

[backseatjuan]

Damn boy, it's like holding a purse only you take it out of her hands and hold it. Fcking control!

 

[Murk]

This is the cringey, weird, psycho realm of behaviour that has guys asking why they are 9/10 athletic and get no action.

Some people have a personality that leads them to be cringey weirdos out of touch with reality and no self-awareness.

I'm sure this guy thinks he's the man.

Anyone condoning this behaviour is suspect

 

[logicallefty]

She better be my GF and a damn good one before she gets access to my phone.

 

[RangerMIke]

I turn off my phone on dates.

 

[andreihaha]

If you have more females competing for you, just do as I do: leave your phone on the table.
She'll see the Whatsapp message accompanied by a hot picture of their rival, and you just turn it off.
It shows that you need no validation from females and that you have options. And she is more likely to believe that you'll treat her respectfully when she's on the other side of the equation.

But turning off your phone is the best option if you're dealing with a shy/insecure woman.
It's all relative. Just don't give random b1tches your phone, that's not useful in any way.

 

[Murk]

If you have more females competing for you, just do as I do: leave your phone on the table.
She'll see the Whatsapp message accompanied by a hot picture of their rival, and you just turn it off.
It shows that you need no validation from females and that you have options. And she is more likely to believe that you'll treat her respectfully when she's on the other side of the equation.

But turning off your phone is the best option if you're dealing with a shy/insecure woman.
It's all relative. Just don't give random b1tches your phone, that's not useful in any way.

I mean to me this all seems too petty. Why prove you have options if you really do?

Oh look another girl is texting me!

Bro you should be focused on your date and seeing if she is trash or not, can you bang her tonight? Good rapport?

Instead guys are hoping another girls texts them and the date sees on some senpai notice me tip

Shameful.

 

[andreihaha]

I mean to me this all seems too petty. Why prove you have options if you really do?

Oh look another girl is texting me!

Bro you should be focused on your date and seeing if she is trash or not, can you bang her tonight? Good rapport?

Instead guys are hoping another girls texts them and the date sees on some senpai notice me tip

Shameful.

I'm not saying I'm not focused on my date.
If I get a text from another, fine, if not, fine again. I don't care.
Of course you should be enjoying your date, but that can be used on SOME chicks.

 

[Dam44]

I'm not saying I'm not focused on my date.
If I get a text from another, fine, if not, fine again. I don't care.
Of course you should be enjoying your date, but that can be used on SOME chicks.

SOME= Chicks that love playing games to cut their BS?