*Runs to hug sb...veeres off and goes to girlfriend instead.*Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
So... am I the only one who wants to hug SB? She's so cute.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
*Runs to hug sb...veeres off and goes to girlfriend instead.*Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
So... am I the only one who wants to hug SB? She's so cute.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm trying.Originally posted by seabreeze
Be nice, Eternal.
Oh. A cyber-hug threesome.Originally posted by seabreeze
Be nice, Eternal.
Cyber-hug, Sexy & FOF.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hehe. She is my girlfriend.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
OK. I don't want to get on Eternal's bad side...
Both because I think he's a good mod and because I'm kinda scared of him.
But... while I don't think that Fist Of Fury and Eternal are the SAME PERSON (sorry Wyld)... they ARE both mods on Eternal's site... no?
(Not that that matters anyway... I mean so they're friends, big whoop... he can defend his friend if he wants to).
But same person? Probably not.
::ducks::
The policy of no comments in photo threads being changed and the end of the locking and deleting of threads for such stupid reasons. A similar thread being buried on page 6 is no reason to delete or lock a new thread. Page 6 doesn't even show up for most people. And Anything Else should be a lot more lax anyway because it's where off topic conversations go. The current tone of the forum is implying that friendly chat on the forum is unwelcome and that you should only use PMs for that. I firmly believe that is an ignorant position to take because it's that casual chat that gives a sense of community and comraderie. Without that, this is not a "community of users" it's just an information dump. If you take away the human factor of a community and forum it ceases to thrive, stagnates and essentially sucks.Originally posted by seabreeze
What would be the ideal for you in this situation, Wyldfire? It's not like people don't care about how you feel, right? What would make you happy?
SB
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Hehe. That makes a few people who can't sleep for some reason.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Aha! I get it!!!
Eternal & FOF ... sitting in a tree...
K I S S I N G...
Wow. I'm really bored. I'm sorry guys. I just can't sleep.
Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Aha! I get it!!!
Eternal & FOF ... sitting in a tree...
K I S S I N G...
Wow. I'm really bored. I'm sorry guys. I just can't sleep.
Listen Eternal...if anyone engages me when I'm pi$$ed off and starts tossing out barbs, they can depend on getting a few thrown back at them. If they don't wish to have darts sticking out of their arse, then they should be the one to back off, capiche?Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, back off. If you want to bash me, that's fine. I can take it like the man you wish you had. But leave everyone else out of it.
This is why the replies get deleted in the picture thread. Someone starts something and it escalates quickly.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Listen Eternal...if anyone engages me when I'm pi$$ed off and starts tossing out barbs, they can depend on getting a few thrown back at them. If they don't wish to have darts sticking out of their arse, then they should be the one to back off, capiche?
Um. Dude... No offense... but...Originally posted by Eternal
Hehe. That makes a few people who can't sleep for some reason.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Probably the fact she's in Tennessee and I'm in Alabama. Little too far to stretch. Though in a week and few days, we'll both be back home...Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Um. Dude... No offense... but...
Why are you and your girlfriend both wasting your time in this thread when you could be having hot sex or something?(I mean... if you guys can't sleep).
I'd be doing that instead of reading So-****ing-suave right now if I had a babysitter.![]()
Oh for the mother humping love of Christ...I DID NOT EVER SAY FIST OF FURY WAS ETERNAL...Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
OK. I don't want to get on Eternal's bad side...
Both because I think he's a good mod and because I'm kinda scared of him.
But... while I don't think that Fist Of Fury and Eternal are the SAME PERSON (sorry Wyld)... they ARE both mods on Eternal's site... no?
(Not that that matters anyway... I mean so they're friends, big whoop... he can defend his friend if he wants to).
But same person? Probably not.
::ducks::
Did I address this thread to "Fist of Fury"? No, I didn't. Does "Fist of Fury" have anything whatsoever to do with the topic being discussed here? No, they don't. Did I post first to them? No, I didn't. They came on here showing their a$$ to me and I gave it a swift kick. Perhaps in the future they will think twice about jumping into something that isn't their business and acting like a bad a$$.Originally posted by Eternal
This is why the replies get deleted in the picture thread. Someone starts something and it escalates quickly.
Erm, it could have been easier to ignore them. Try this with me Wyld...Originally posted by Wyldfire
Did I address this thread to "Fist of Fury"? No, I didn't. Does "Fist of Fury" have anything whatsoever to do with the topic being discussed here? No, they don't. Did I post first to them? No, I didn't. They came on here showing their a$$ to me and I gave it a swift kick. Perhaps in the future they will think twice about jumping into something that isn't their business and acting like a bad a$$.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.