"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Allen, please remove my advice posts from the DJ Bible
- Thread starter Wyldfire
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
seabreeze
Master Don Juan
Cyber-hug, Sexy & FOF.
*Runs to hug sb...veeres off and goes to girlfriend instead.*
That's right!
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Both because I think he's a good mod and because I'm kinda scared of him.
But... while I don't think that Fist Of Fury and Eternal are the SAME PERSON (sorry Wyld)... they ARE both mods on Eternal's site... no?
(Not that that matters anyway... I mean so they're friends, big whoop... he can defend his friend if he wants to).
But same person? Probably not.
::ducks::
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Oh. A cyber-hug threesome.
:
ushes boobs out in attention-*****-hug-fashion::"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
seabreeze
Master Don Juan
G'nite everyone!
Smooches,
SB
Fist_of_Fury
Don Juan
hehe, jk Sexy
The policy of no comments in photo threads being changed and the end of the locking and deleting of threads for such stupid reasons. A similar thread being buried on page 6 is no reason to delete or lock a new thread. Page 6 doesn't even show up for most people. And Anything Else should be a lot more lax anyway because it's where off topic conversations go. The current tone of the forum is implying that friendly chat on the forum is unwelcome and that you should only use PMs for that. I firmly believe that is an ignorant position to take because it's that casual chat that gives a sense of community and comraderie. Without that, this is not a "community of users" it's just an information dump. If you take away the human factor of a community and forum it ceases to thrive, stagnates and essentially sucks.
These kinds of policies will be the death of this site and my ranting and pushing on this issue is an attempt to prevent that from happening...in conjunction with me being righteously pi$$ed at being censored.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Eternal & FOF ... sitting in a tree...
K I S S I N G...
Wow. I'm really bored. I'm sorry guys. I just can't sleep.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Fist_of_Fury
Don Juan
So...awake....good thing I don't have finals until next week, but i probably won't sleep then, either...lol
Listen Eternal...if anyone engages me when I'm pi$$ed off and starts tossing out barbs, they can depend on getting a few thrown back at them. If they don't wish to have darts sticking out of their arse, then they should be the one to back off, capiche?
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
Um. Dude... No offense... but...
Why are you and your girlfriend both wasting your time in this thread when you could be having hot sex or something?
(I mean... if you guys can't sleep).I'd be doing that instead of reading So-****ing-suave right now if I had a babysitter.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Probably the fact she's in Tennessee and I'm in Alabama. Little too far to stretch. Though in a week and few days, we'll both be back home...Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Um. Dude... No offense... but...
Why are you and your girlfriend both wasting your time in this thread when you could be having hot sex or something?
I'd be doing that instead of reading So-****ing-suave right now if I had a babysitter.
Oh for the mother humping love of Christ...I DID NOT EVER SAY FIST OF FURY WAS ETERNAL...
ETERNAL said I thought they were the same person. I NEVER said it...ETERNAL said it.
Now that we've established that...may I please get back on my soap box and continue?
Thank you...
Fist_of_Fury
Don Juan
"Have some balls and use the ID you usually do...people aren't THAT dumb, you know."
Did I address this thread to "Fist of Fury"? No, I didn't. Does "Fist of Fury" have anything whatsoever to do with the topic being discussed here? No, they don't. Did I post first to them? No, I didn't. They came on here showing their a$$ to me and I gave it a swift kick. Perhaps in the future they will think twice about jumping into something that isn't their business and acting like a bad a$$.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.