*Runs to hug sb...veeres off and goes to girlfriend instead.*Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
So... am I the only one who wants to hug SB? She's so cute.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
*Runs to hug sb...veeres off and goes to girlfriend instead.*Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
So... am I the only one who wants to hug SB? She's so cute.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm trying.Originally posted by seabreeze
Be nice, Eternal.
Oh. A cyber-hug threesome.Originally posted by seabreeze
Be nice, Eternal.
Cyber-hug, Sexy & FOF.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Hehe. She is my girlfriend.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
OK. I don't want to get on Eternal's bad side...
Both because I think he's a good mod and because I'm kinda scared of him.
But... while I don't think that Fist Of Fury and Eternal are the SAME PERSON (sorry Wyld)... they ARE both mods on Eternal's site... no?
(Not that that matters anyway... I mean so they're friends, big whoop... he can defend his friend if he wants to).
But same person? Probably not.
::ducks::
The policy of no comments in photo threads being changed and the end of the locking and deleting of threads for such stupid reasons. A similar thread being buried on page 6 is no reason to delete or lock a new thread. Page 6 doesn't even show up for most people. And Anything Else should be a lot more lax anyway because it's where off topic conversations go. The current tone of the forum is implying that friendly chat on the forum is unwelcome and that you should only use PMs for that. I firmly believe that is an ignorant position to take because it's that casual chat that gives a sense of community and comraderie. Without that, this is not a "community of users" it's just an information dump. If you take away the human factor of a community and forum it ceases to thrive, stagnates and essentially sucks.Originally posted by seabreeze
What would be the ideal for you in this situation, Wyldfire? It's not like people don't care about how you feel, right? What would make you happy?
SB
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hehe. That makes a few people who can't sleep for some reason.Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Aha! I get it!!!
Eternal & FOF ... sitting in a tree...
K I S S I N G...
Wow. I'm really bored. I'm sorry guys. I just can't sleep.
Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Aha! I get it!!!
Eternal & FOF ... sitting in a tree...
K I S S I N G...
Wow. I'm really bored. I'm sorry guys. I just can't sleep.
Listen Eternal...if anyone engages me when I'm pi$$ed off and starts tossing out barbs, they can depend on getting a few thrown back at them. If they don't wish to have darts sticking out of their arse, then they should be the one to back off, capiche?Originally posted by Eternal
Wyld, back off. If you want to bash me, that's fine. I can take it like the man you wish you had. But leave everyone else out of it.
This is why the replies get deleted in the picture thread. Someone starts something and it escalates quickly.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Listen Eternal...if anyone engages me when I'm pi$$ed off and starts tossing out barbs, they can depend on getting a few thrown back at them. If they don't wish to have darts sticking out of their arse, then they should be the one to back off, capiche?
Um. Dude... No offense... but...Originally posted by Eternal
Hehe. That makes a few people who can't sleep for some reason.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Probably the fact she's in Tennessee and I'm in Alabama. Little too far to stretch. Though in a week and few days, we'll both be back home...Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Um. Dude... No offense... but...
Why are you and your girlfriend both wasting your time in this thread when you could be having hot sex or something?(I mean... if you guys can't sleep).
I'd be doing that instead of reading So-****ing-suave right now if I had a babysitter.![]()
Oh for the mother humping love of Christ...I DID NOT EVER SAY FIST OF FURY WAS ETERNAL...Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
OK. I don't want to get on Eternal's bad side...
Both because I think he's a good mod and because I'm kinda scared of him.
But... while I don't think that Fist Of Fury and Eternal are the SAME PERSON (sorry Wyld)... they ARE both mods on Eternal's site... no?
(Not that that matters anyway... I mean so they're friends, big whoop... he can defend his friend if he wants to).
But same person? Probably not.
::ducks::
Did I address this thread to "Fist of Fury"? No, I didn't. Does "Fist of Fury" have anything whatsoever to do with the topic being discussed here? No, they don't. Did I post first to them? No, I didn't. They came on here showing their a$$ to me and I gave it a swift kick. Perhaps in the future they will think twice about jumping into something that isn't their business and acting like a bad a$$.Originally posted by Eternal
This is why the replies get deleted in the picture thread. Someone starts something and it escalates quickly.
Erm, it could have been easier to ignore them. Try this with me Wyld...Originally posted by Wyldfire
Did I address this thread to "Fist of Fury"? No, I didn't. Does "Fist of Fury" have anything whatsoever to do with the topic being discussed here? No, they don't. Did I post first to them? No, I didn't. They came on here showing their a$$ to me and I gave it a swift kick. Perhaps in the future they will think twice about jumping into something that isn't their business and acting like a bad a$$.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.