“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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All work and no play

slitherjef

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Makes slitherjef a dull boy.

Seems all I ever do any more is work commute to work via public transportation and sleep. The car and learning to drive it is being worked on but still seems all I do is work sleep and go to work. I'm posting this message from work.

Heck I still miss out on sleep so I can relax and light up my guitar a bit.

My work hours are jacked public transportation sucks and by the time I get a day off all I want to do is sleep and relax. Driving will help but it is still a commute.

This basicly leaves the chicks at work to talk to though they look good, if I go after them and get shot down people start to talk and I may get a rep as desperate.

This just leaves the bus and not that many hotties ride it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dunno what the point of this message is but I guess I'll take it:
Unless you work 7 days a week you can meet girls on other days. But not having fun has deeper implications in your life. Forgetting girls, are you happy with not having enough time for anything? Is it worth it?

If not either change jobs or move closer to your job. Depending one your personal situation, that might be easy or hard. But if it's something you want, you'll find the way and put the effort into it.
 

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When I first started my job out of school, I was working 8-5, but had a 2 hour train ride and 30 minute ride from the train station each way, so I was waking up at about 5:00am, then after work I would go to the gym; when I got home, it was 9:00pm, hadn't ate dinner, and I was exhausted. It sucked. And I didn't even work that many hours!

I met up with buddies on the weekend to keep my sanity, but after about 8 months I kind of lost it and found a place 20 minutes from work. Best decision I ever made!
 

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first you gotta give yourself time to adjust to any changes that have just happened and second you must remember that it is a phase and things will go back to normal soon.
plan to do something to relax soon and plan to do something out with your friends soon.
it will make you feel better.
 

slitherjef

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Thanks all. Don't want to move, since we just bought a house. Kind of sucks living at home too, but I help take care of my dad, so me being home helps the family out. Plus they kind of need my help with the house. Should not have much problem bring a girl home, that is, if I can find one :rolleyes:

Friends? Don't have too many and seem to have trouble making them. My one friend lives about 20 some miles from me, works full time, spends time with a lot of girls. This is normal, not really a phase.

Guess I need to, on my day off, sit and think of an action plan, how I can make the best use of my time on the bus or at work, or something
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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