"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All work and no play

slitherjef

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Makes slitherjef a dull boy.

Seems all I ever do any more is work commute to work via public transportation and sleep. The car and learning to drive it is being worked on but still seems all I do is work sleep and go to work. I'm posting this message from work.

Heck I still miss out on sleep so I can relax and light up my guitar a bit.

My work hours are jacked public transportation sucks and by the time I get a day off all I want to do is sleep and relax. Driving will help but it is still a commute.

This basicly leaves the chicks at work to talk to though they look good, if I go after them and get shot down people start to talk and I may get a rep as desperate.

This just leaves the bus and not that many hotties ride it
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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benjiprice

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Dunno what the point of this message is but I guess I'll take it:
Unless you work 7 days a week you can meet girls on other days. But not having fun has deeper implications in your life. Forgetting girls, are you happy with not having enough time for anything? Is it worth it?

If not either change jobs or move closer to your job. Depending one your personal situation, that might be easy or hard. But if it's something you want, you'll find the way and put the effort into it.
 

Effington

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When I first started my job out of school, I was working 8-5, but had a 2 hour train ride and 30 minute ride from the train station each way, so I was waking up at about 5:00am, then after work I would go to the gym; when I got home, it was 9:00pm, hadn't ate dinner, and I was exhausted. It sucked. And I didn't even work that many hours!

I met up with buddies on the weekend to keep my sanity, but after about 8 months I kind of lost it and found a place 20 minutes from work. Best decision I ever made!
 

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first you gotta give yourself time to adjust to any changes that have just happened and second you must remember that it is a phase and things will go back to normal soon.
plan to do something to relax soon and plan to do something out with your friends soon.
it will make you feel better.
 

slitherjef

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Thanks all. Don't want to move, since we just bought a house. Kind of sucks living at home too, but I help take care of my dad, so me being home helps the family out. Plus they kind of need my help with the house. Should not have much problem bring a girl home, that is, if I can find one :rolleyes:

Friends? Don't have too many and seem to have trouble making them. My one friend lives about 20 some miles from me, works full time, spends time with a lot of girls. This is normal, not really a phase.

Guess I need to, on my day off, sit and think of an action plan, how I can make the best use of my time on the bus or at work, or something
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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