"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
All women are the same
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
I've dated lots of good girls and lots of bad ones. It makes people look weak when they fall into that "All women are (blank)." way of thinking. When these guys say that, they sound exactly like the fat chick with a crap personality that says "All men are dogs."
I'm not gonna let a couple bad chicks sour my hopes of finding the next good one.
For a fat chic most men are dogs, they want to hit it but they don't want to be with her. For the average Herb or AFC all women are the same, they can't get one and when they do they can't hold on to her. It's the cry of the weak.Iceberg said:Yeah. Seems like a lot of people here have been hurt, and they're letting that cloud their judgment.
I've dated lots of good girls and lots of bad ones. It makes people look weak when they fall into that "All women are (blank)." way of thinking. When these guys say that, they sound exactly like the fat chick with a crap personality that says "All men are dogs."
I'm not gonna let a couple bad chicks sour my hopes of finding the next good one.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Master of the Universe
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All women eat, drink, and sleep. So there you have it!
Seriously though, going beyond these most basic of all human similarities, it's unwise to make generalities about women.
There are two reasons for this:
1) It's not accurate - no two women are the same, no two women have the same life experiences, fears, dreams, hopes, or desires, and no two women will have their desires fulfilled in the same way (and no, I'm not talking sexually).
But as humans, we like to generalize... it's makes things easy (and let's face it, we tend to be lazy.)
Someone can be very good with women, making generalizations that will help him succeed. However, I can guarantee you that he will not be able to get all women, for the simply reason that his generalizations, even if successful, will by default cause him to fail with certain women who do not fit the filter that he uses to see the world.
2) It takes the fun and enjoyment out of the process - even if all women are the same (which I don't believe), I would still choose to behave as if all women are different because it adds enjoyment, fun, and magic into the formula. Without that, picking up girls would quickly become a boring chore (trust me, I fell in this trap before.)
My two cents,
MotU
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These things are road maps, based on it you will have some idea if it´s worth going there. Try also to know what kind of girl attracts you (personality).
One thing which pisses me off with women is that most are so damn comformist. I don't want to sound like the goth kids from southpark but women seldom have an opinion which sticks out. They are generally very gullible and too emotional for their own good. Feminism is the perfect ideology to **** up countries because women are generally not fit of being in charge or make the tough decisions.
But I do agree, not every women is the same but I'd say 90-95% are pretty useless for most men. Standard values, standard thoughts, standard ideas, just plain mediocrity. A man who wants to go anywhere in life should chose a woman who can think outside the box.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this forum describes a few type of men that 90% fit into one of these descriptions. I used to be an AFC :$ well I read some articles here that described my life
when it comes to dating, variety when it comes to personality is not very widespread
which is why yes this forum can describe what women want and what men should do and how