"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
All women are the same
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Iceberg
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I've dated lots of good girls and lots of bad ones. It makes people look weak when they fall into that "All women are (blank)." way of thinking. When these guys say that, they sound exactly like the fat chick with a crap personality that says "All men are dogs."
I'm not gonna let a couple bad chicks sour my hopes of finding the next good one.
For a fat chic most men are dogs, they want to hit it but they don't want to be with her. For the average Herb or AFC all women are the same, they can't get one and when they do they can't hold on to her. It's the cry of the weak.Iceberg said:Yeah. Seems like a lot of people here have been hurt, and they're letting that cloud their judgment.
I've dated lots of good girls and lots of bad ones. It makes people look weak when they fall into that "All women are (blank)." way of thinking. When these guys say that, they sound exactly like the fat chick with a crap personality that says "All men are dogs."
I'm not gonna let a couple bad chicks sour my hopes of finding the next good one.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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All women eat, drink, and sleep. So there you have it!
Seriously though, going beyond these most basic of all human similarities, it's unwise to make generalities about women.
There are two reasons for this:
1) It's not accurate - no two women are the same, no two women have the same life experiences, fears, dreams, hopes, or desires, and no two women will have their desires fulfilled in the same way (and no, I'm not talking sexually).
But as humans, we like to generalize... it's makes things easy (and let's face it, we tend to be lazy.)
Someone can be very good with women, making generalizations that will help him succeed. However, I can guarantee you that he will not be able to get all women, for the simply reason that his generalizations, even if successful, will by default cause him to fail with certain women who do not fit the filter that he uses to see the world.
2) It takes the fun and enjoyment out of the process - even if all women are the same (which I don't believe), I would still choose to behave as if all women are different because it adds enjoyment, fun, and magic into the formula. Without that, picking up girls would quickly become a boring chore (trust me, I fell in this trap before.)
My two cents,
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These things are road maps, based on it you will have some idea if it´s worth going there. Try also to know what kind of girl attracts you (personality).
One thing which pisses me off with women is that most are so damn comformist. I don't want to sound like the goth kids from southpark but women seldom have an opinion which sticks out. They are generally very gullible and too emotional for their own good. Feminism is the perfect ideology to **** up countries because women are generally not fit of being in charge or make the tough decisions.
But I do agree, not every women is the same but I'd say 90-95% are pretty useless for most men. Standard values, standard thoughts, standard ideas, just plain mediocrity. A man who wants to go anywhere in life should chose a woman who can think outside the box.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
this forum describes a few type of men that 90% fit into one of these descriptions. I used to be an AFC :$ well I read some articles here that described my life
when it comes to dating, variety when it comes to personality is not very widespread
which is why yes this forum can describe what women want and what men should do and how