"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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> First of all I would like to thank you for ur advice

Four years ago, i liked this really attractive popular girl. She
draws tons of boys attentions.
Apparently,she liked and following around and staring at me. However I
kept running away literally for a year. She was sad, pissed, but never
gave up on me for that whole year. After that year I never to talked to
her. During that time I was regretting of how stupid I was and kept
having faith in that someday we'll be together. I kept wishing that
everyday, even though i know it's wrong.
Now four years after that, I saw her once again. At first, she kept crazily flirting at me as if i was brad pitt or somethin. So I finally talked to her
for the first time. She was surprisingly overwhelmed.
Then everything turned completely around after that. Talked about
me and how I went to the hospital last year. I got her cell number by
writing it down on a piece of newspaper in my bag. I told her I don't
know how to use my cell, but I was actually nervous. So I called her the (2 times) next day but she didn't picked up. After that day, I called her 4 times but still did't pick up. Now, I'm not a
creep, but I was inexperienced on asking girls and made lots of
impaired judgements. Two days later I talked to her once again. She trying to
avoid me like I was really a creep. But I finally talked to her. I told her that even though we dont match, it is what inside it counts. But she said she all ready got a boyfriend. So I got rejected big time. WAS SHE LYING? WILL I GET ANOTHER CHANCE? IF SO, HOW? how?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sugarfoot

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Ouch! No, you won't get any more chances.

6 times?!!

You may not be a creep, but you did act creepy. Do yourself a favor: cut your losses and move on.


TOOTLES™
 

Papi Jack

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you can't undo it. Don't mean to be harsh, but you already screw up bro.

Now do yourself a favor and start to read the DJ Bible. Then you will understand why she is avoiding you like a plage.

Anyways... there are plenty of girls... Don't sweat for ONE.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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this is the day from hell on this board...and Im still at ****ing work after 12 hours! CHRIST!

anyways man there are millions of women out there..plenty of hotties..and guess what they are RIPE FOR THE PICKING!

good luck...and I honestly dont think u can undo this
 

thefonz

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all you CAN do to save it is to live your life, follow your passions etc etc etc and hope (not need) that she takes notice in you again. But thefact that you've seen her once in the last four years probablt means it's over
 

I-am-someone

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Rookie, she had an image of you in her mind that was so great, it would have been impossible to match up to it anyway. Don't worry, girls do this more often - as do guys by the way.

Ofcourse, you could have gotten her, but that is now behind you. After having thoroughly proved you're not what she thought you were, her mind now has an entirely different image of you and working your way back is a b1tch. You can work around it, but she will never look at you the way she did before which basically makes her bad news.

Move on, GFTOW
 
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