"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR

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> First of all I would like to thank you for ur advice

Four years ago, i liked this really attractive popular girl. She
draws tons of boys attentions.
Apparently,she liked and following around and staring at me. However I
kept running away literally for a year. She was sad, pissed, but never
gave up on me for that whole year. After that year I never to talked to
her. During that time I was regretting of how stupid I was and kept
having faith in that someday we'll be together. I kept wishing that
everyday, even though i know it's wrong.
Now four years after that, I saw her once again. At first, she kept crazily flirting at me as if i was brad pitt or somethin. So I finally talked to her
for the first time. She was surprisingly overwhelmed.
Then everything turned completely around after that. Talked about
me and how I went to the hospital last year. I got her cell number by
writing it down on a piece of newspaper in my bag. I told her I don't
know how to use my cell, but I was actually nervous. So I called her the (2 times) next day but she didn't picked up. After that day, I called her 4 times but still did't pick up. Now, I'm not a
creep, but I was inexperienced on asking girls and made lots of
impaired judgements. Two days later I talked to her once again. She trying to
avoid me like I was really a creep. But I finally talked to her. I told her that even though we dont match, it is what inside it counts. But she said she all ready got a boyfriend. So I got rejected big time. WAS SHE LYING? WILL I GET ANOTHER CHANCE? IF SO, HOW? how?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sugarfoot

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Ouch! No, you won't get any more chances.

6 times?!!

You may not be a creep, but you did act creepy. Do yourself a favor: cut your losses and move on.


TOOTLES™
 

Papi Jack

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you can't undo it. Don't mean to be harsh, but you already screw up bro.

Now do yourself a favor and start to read the DJ Bible. Then you will understand why she is avoiding you like a plage.

Anyways... there are plenty of girls... Don't sweat for ONE.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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frivolousz21

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this is the day from hell on this board...and Im still at ****ing work after 12 hours! CHRIST!

anyways man there are millions of women out there..plenty of hotties..and guess what they are RIPE FOR THE PICKING!

good luck...and I honestly dont think u can undo this
 

thefonz

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all you CAN do to save it is to live your life, follow your passions etc etc etc and hope (not need) that she takes notice in you again. But thefact that you've seen her once in the last four years probablt means it's over
 

I-am-someone

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Rookie, she had an image of you in her mind that was so great, it would have been impossible to match up to it anyway. Don't worry, girls do this more often - as do guys by the way.

Ofcourse, you could have gotten her, but that is now behind you. After having thoroughly proved you're not what she thought you were, her mind now has an entirely different image of you and working your way back is a b1tch. You can work around it, but she will never look at you the way she did before which basically makes her bad news.

Move on, GFTOW
 
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