All the Confident Girls Have Boyfriends

[Fengal]

Ahhhh this drives me mad. All the girls I am interested in have boyfriends. I think its because I'm attracted to their confidence and independence. I really don't know what to do about it...

 

[Atom Smasher]

The ONLY thing to do is to develop your own confidence. You might be attracted to something that is lacking in yourself.

 

[perseverance]

A lot of confident women really aren't all that confident at all. Also if a girl is in a relationship with someone then she is hardly independent is she? She's committed to someone, that hardly equates to independence does it? I know one girl she gets around, she openly admits she is curious for ****, but why? She enjoys sex like everyone else, but she seeks self-validation from outside sources - these men that sleep with her give her the validation that she needs. They make her feel attractive, make her feel desired and wanted.

It's like women who continously jump from one relationship to another - they do this because they want to feel loved etc by another person because they do not love themselves. They are unhappy with themselves and use outside sources to dictate how they feel about themselves. Women are very fickle creatures and easily manipulated if you know how to do it. Just look at the relationship between women and the comestic industry. The cosmetic industry exploits women's insecurities to sell products and generate billions in what is a highly lucrative industry and women just cannot see it.

So I'd argue that a majority of women are not confident or independent.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Just look at the relationship between women and the comestic industry. The cosmetic industry exploits women's insecurities to sell products and generate billions in what is a highly lucrative industry and women just cannot see it.

So I'd argue that a majority of women are not confident or independent.

Every woman I've ever met, except for the really old ones (50s and above), at a cosmetics store (like Sephora, like Ulta, etc etc.) is an Uber Biatch. I mean, I catch them looking at me, I Know she's into me (just mid-30s like me), but the next day she'll be miss pouty puff again and "Act" like she doesn't like me or in a "get the fvck outta my face" kinda attitude. Just capital Pissy. ALL women in cosmetic stores are PPPPPPisssy. I mean, what Man would EVER put up with these kinds of creatures over the long haul. If she ain't that rare bird who's worshiping me at my feet, I don't want nothing to do with it/her. It's just a cauldron of oily, syrupy, clay mix, hindrance to my health. These are the kind you Use, you fvck em and leave em. In the realm of women, there are very few keepers. Only a fool would try to "keep" the first woman he sees.

 

[Burroughs]

ALL women in cosmetic stores are PPPPPPisssy. I mean, what Man would EVER put up with these kinds of creatures over the long haul. .

99% of men thats who....sadly.

The real crux of the matter is when it comes to puzzy men are weak as sh!t..Men rarely think about a woman's long term suitability as long as she's hot...you put a young jenna haze in front of a young steve jobs and he might very well throw away his dreams at the chance at some buttsecks...luckily (for us) the jenna haze's of the world don't fvck the young steve jobs of the world until their empires are already built.

 

[Desdinova]

Ahhhh this drives me mad. All the girls I am interested in have boyfriends.

This is why you must learn how to be more attractive than most of the other guys out there. When you become more interesting and exciting than her bf, she will dump him for you.

 

[Burroughs]

To answer the OP yes..most girls who have their sh!t together, ie aniston/N Portman body types, good education, funny, fun...will have a bf since they are 16..They are simply too many desperate dudes hitting on hb8 with foul personalities that the hb8s with good personalities will be snapped up like 20 dollar Jordan 3s.

Your job if you are unable to land a top tier chick is to elevate your life..not YOUR GAME YOUR LIFE...becoming a better person, $$, hobbies, everything so you can lure her away from the dude she is with...because a TOP TIER CHICK WILL NEVER BE SINGLE AFTER AGE 21

 

[Lexington]

It's a fact of life that top tier girls will always have guys who want them. So usually they aren't single for long if they want to get into a relationship. The key is that you have to keep a good circle of female acquaintances. Even if they are currently attached it doesn't mean you can't plant the seed for later.

Don't be the beta friend who spends time with her, does favors etc. while she fvcks someone else. But you can definitely flirt with her a little and establish yourself as potential boyfriend/FB material. Then, when the time is right, you can make your move.

When the opportunity does present itself, you have to act fast. If you snooze you lose. That applies to most girls but that especially goes for the 8+ girls with good personalities....the window is very small.

 

[Mike32ct]

Most taken chicks come across as confident. Is she natural confident or just feeling confident be she "has someone" and is getting stuffed a few times per week. My guess is it is usually the later.

 

[GameTime76]

I'm sure most Confident and Independant guys have girlfriends too!

 

[Strelok]

Confidence and beauty always happen togheter in chicks, how comes?

Even the most nerdish afc would become confident after months of having girls hitting on him,worshipping him no matter how many times he screw up things.

Dont confuse confidence from within with confidence from outside, the example is the cool guy at highschool with his large jaw and big muscles and everyone who wants to be his friend who walk as he is the king of the world,only to walk with his tail between his legs 10 yrs after when he needs to ask a check at the welfare office.

Anyway I think you should also consider what Atom said, its common to search in other people what we lack ourself.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

No way man, they're just more rare to come by. Coming by that great confident girl is like having that one day in the summer with your friends when you do a ton of fun stuff. It doesn't happen so often, same with meeting confident hot women.

I met a really cool chick just the other night. Only hungout with her for a few hours at a party and talked a bit, but from what she told me about herself she's of a lot more quality (personally speaking) than past girls i've dated.

Just gotta keep sargin!

 

[garruk]

To answer the OP yes..most girls who have their sh!t together, ie aniston/N Portman body types, good education, funny, fun...will have a bf since they are 16..They are simply too many desperate dudes hitting on hb8 with foul personalities that the hb8s with good personalities will be snapped up like 20 dollar Jordan 3s.

Your job if you are unable to land a top tier chick is to elevate your life..not YOUR GAME YOUR LIFE...becoming a better person, $$, hobbies, everything so you can lure her away from the dude she is with...because a TOP TIER CHICK WILL NEVER BE SINGLE AFTER AGE 21

i agree with this 100%. everything i do that chick-related is built on this.

improve yourself, and you'll be surprised how far you can go with mediocre/poor game.

 

[PapiChulo]

These "confident" women only have big egos bloated by external means. They may infact be dependent on all of that validation. They have that thick protective shell conditioned by our very own societal norms, but may easily be just as insecure as anybody else if you dig inside.The real confidence comes from within, from being experienced and 'wise', from being in tune with yourself. This is all masculine and I encounter very few women who are anything like that. That's why they are the insecure gender and are attracted to what they lack - confidence. Gotta tell you that some women are also delusional and dumb as a wooden board to comprehend their own condition, which makes them delusionally confident. Haha. So a "confident woman" belongs in the Sex and City episodes....and the women's studies class (I would know because I took one.). Ha ha

 

[Serg897]

A lot of confident women really aren't all that confident at all. Also if a girl is in a relationship with someone then she is hardly independent is she? She's committed to someone, that hardly equates to independence does it? I know one girl she gets around, she openly admits she is curious for ****, but why? She enjoys sex like everyone else, but she seeks self-validation from outside sources - these men that sleep with her give her the validation that she needs. They make her feel attractive, make her feel desired and wanted.

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So I'd argue that a majority of women are not confident or independent.

So by this logic, those of us who are on this website, diving into the materials and strategies in order to attract, date, and keep a woman, and date many of them, are not really confident at all since we are seeking self validation from outside sources

 

[perseverance]

So by this logic, those of us who are on this website, diving into the materials and strategies in order to attract, date, and keep a woman, and date many of them, are not really confident at all since we are seeking self validation from outside sources

Pretty much.

I believe that only a small minority of people on this planet are truly confident and are truly independent.

 

[Zodiac]

I'm sure most Confident and Independant guys have girlfriends too!

Confident guys don't need a girlfriend to get what they want

Ahhhh this drives me mad. All the girls I am interested in have boyfriends. I think its because I'm attracted to their confidence and independence. I really don't know what to do about it...

Don't confuse confidence with manipulation.